Need To Know Advice for a Women Going To Her First Rendezvous

Personal Appearance

Probably the biggest decision any woman has to make about a first rendezvous is what to wear.

• When choosing your clothes choose colours that compliment your skin tone, and wear clothes that are comfortable and you feel confident in.
• Make a real effect to have your hair and make up at your best.
• Wear a new outfit. If you choose to wear black for the meeting, it is very lucky to wear red underwear.
• When it comes to your underwear, choose matching bra and undies that make you feel feminine.
• Wear footwear appropriate to the occasion.
• Make sure you have no unpleasant body odour but don't overdo it with colognes and deodorants.
• Have a fresh breath and don't smell of cigarette smoke.

Communication

Trying to communicate while suffering first rendezvous nerves can be hard.  If you are nervous try not to ramble on with trivial conversation. Remember your companion is nervous too, and sometimes it is you who has to put your companion at ease by introducing a topic of interest to both of you. You can both talk about each other's pasts, but don't let the subject dominate the evening. When you are talking, watch your companion's body language, as this can give you a true indication whether or not your companion is interested or cares about what you are saying.

Signs to look for are;

• Does he make eye contact when replying?
• Are your companion's arms crossed across the chest?
• Are your companions arms crossed behind the head?
• When he replies, does he cover his mouth with his hand?
• Is your companion's attention wandering, as displayed by a roving gaze?
• Does your companion lean closer when you lean towards him?
• Try not to fidget. You need to look and feel relaxed, because your companion will pick up on your nervous energies.

Be yourself when choosing from the menu. Eat how you would normally eat with friends and family, and don't create false impressions. If you choose spicy food, have breath freshener with you unless your companion eats the same food as you do.

Sometimes touching your companion occasionally throughout the rendezvous can put both of you at ease.

Phone

In today's society your mobile phone is your security when meeting a new companion. Don't answer your phone in front of your companion.  If you have organized a friend to ring through the rendezvous, tell them that, if they ring, and your phone is off, the rendezvous is going great. Should you need a reason to leave, make an excuse, such as going to the toilet, then ring your friend to help you to be able to leave early.